Am I on the right track? (2)

[MrBond]

"I'll meet someone who is a genuinely good human being and not a fraud. "

This thinking is what's fraudulent. She was a good human being, fell in love with you and got married to you. After reading through your posts, I saw that all you did was center all your efforts on the A. You never explained in detail what happened or what you may have done to cause her unhappiness. And just to be clear, I never said her having an A was your fault. That is all on her. But it takes two people to break a relationship. Whether it's on purpose or ignorance, there are two sides to the story. It's never as simple as the spouse finding someone else to fall in love with.

I hope you're willing to learn how to deal with your resentment in a healthy manner.