the family home thing was about the OM being in our room in our bed. But after your response, If i forgave her then the room means nothing.
when i meant slap in the face I meant a wake up call to what she is loosing, or throwing away. Not a your an idiot slap.
you wrote: Don't gloss over that, again. You omit important facts but it does not help you; it slows down your increasing your awareness and progress. I'd avoid doing that if I were you).
I would like to mention that i have never expresses things well, and have always been told i embelish or "say too much". I want you to understand that I would love for my marriage to work and be saved. When I reply I am just giving answers, please do not presume that my answer is a direct reflection of my thought.
I have Always had a hard time with semantics, and wording things is sometimes difficult.
I remember a day when my wife asked me if i liked the Superman movie with Brandon Routh - i spent 15 minutes explaining what I did and did not enjoy with the movie. She listened with a smile and replied, "so, you liked it".
I am not always sure whether to elaborate or just condense. and again. I am asking the questions for a reply and for confirmation of my own opinion - and especially for me to make a proper decision and not an emotionally justified moment or irrational thought.
