I have been doing well by not letting his blame and moods affect me nearly as much as they used to. During his manic session last night I just left the room and went to bed. Things seem to be a bit better today although he's drunk. I'm at work DJing right now. I plan to spend most of tomorrow doing my own things... Bike riding, therapy, etc.

So I think I'm managing... But not easily in the slightest.

H: 43
W: 39
Married: 11 years
Together: 18 years
1st BD: 05/2014 asks for separation
2nd BD: 06/16/2014 asks for divorce
No kids
EA: 2 months, not mutual (she didn't return the feelings) over