I HATE not having any estimated timeline. I need to know something about my future. I hate not knowing what's going on. It's a big trigger for me. BIG.
You're never going to have 100% certainty about your future, no matter what. Things can change in an instant, for everyone.
Here is what you DO know: you can be the best you that you can be. You can be the best mother you can be. You can be the best co-parents you can be, regardless of what happens with your relationship. Those are things you can be certain about, so work on those, regardless of the outcome.
