Yes, easier said - I totally agree. I think it's great that you took a job!

It's not denial or naïveté - it's real hope. Nothing is over in this life. You guys will always have a connection for sure. He can't run from or ignore that forever.

Why do you think he is so determined to end the M? Why are you so determined to save it?

Engaged Aug 2009
Fiancé had doubts Jan 2010
Happily re-engaged July 2012
Discovery of affair July 2014
Separated July 2014
Fiancé is confused about whom to choose
Chose the OW Oct 2014