Zimmy, I hear you. My fear is being friend-zoned. H has already said to me that he doesn't see me romantically so I guess I'm already there but that kind of thing can change, right?
YES. Don't expect it on any kind of timeline, but be positive and believe that it will someday. If he eventually files, okay, deal with the finality then. For now, keep digging to get back to independent happiness and capitalizing (love bucket deposits) on any encounters you have with WAH.
Remember, we have to look at WAS as a friend, a casual neighbor, or even something like a cousin. Romance is simply not on the table right now. That [censored], but it's reality. But many people have been there (friends only) and are now reconciled. Crack open DR and re-read the 3-4 pages of testimonies that begin on pg. 136.
Me 38, WAW 30 D11 (former marriage) S2 T 8 years M 3 years BD 8/20/23 S 8/20/23
