You are right. I don't want H to see a pathetic, needy clinger - and I really do feel pathetic. I just wish now that I would have responded to his 2 texts. I know he will not text again since I didn't respond.
Me: 54 H: 58 Married: 29 years Together 33 years H admitted to A: 5/29/14 H moved out :6/15/14 OW lives 4 hours away and "occasionally" stays weekends with H D23 D18