Wife in denied but ongoing affair, what to do???

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Thanks wet. The last two snoops were both one snoop too far. 2nd to last I had thought (hoped) she'd come around which she hadn't (although it did get me back to DB tactics as I should have been). The last snoop suggested she's moving on to OM2 (and possible OM3 being an ex-boyfriend in the texting that night).

I'm not sure how so many suffer through these situations and keep taking a beating. I know I'm already dead, like in band of brothers, but I find myself wanting to hope otherwise and just keep my head down.

Then today we spend time at a pumpkin patch as a family, trying to keep PMA with the kids, while all the time she has no problem acting like nothing's wrong and all are happy. Meanwhile I figure she'd probably f the goat if it sent her some sext messages first. There's some mental poison and PMA at work for you, in case you wondered if snooping was good or bad for your mind.

Otherwise took boys to church today. W didn't go so she wouldn't have to sweat through the service (rimshot). She leaves for her week long conference on Tuesday. Woo hoo. Honestly, it will probably be good to have her out of the house for a week. I'm finding it hard to look at her. Still want her out of my family photos.

So the last 4 years we have done Halloween at my mom's neighborhood with all my brothers and their kids. This year W wants to do it with the friends from the wedding a few weeks back, and trick-or-treat there too (rimshot). For those keeping track, OM2 lives next door to the newlywed couple. Yea for our happy family of 4.

So yeah, I'm avoiding the snooping and working on a PMA this week.