Don't skip the hard parts of this. It's HARD as he11 and we know that.
Ironically, this gut wrenching ordeal ended up being a huge blessing in my life, and I'm sure even now, a part of you knows that you could/should come out of this a much better, more aware & loving man.
(At least you'll have confronted the anger, the controlling parts and the anxiety ridden way of thinking that has contributed to you being here and NOT being at peace within.)
Those^^ are darn good things to achieve, and they're mandatory for you to have a good healthy loving marriage, with anyone...not to mention being a good father. NOTE*** no woman is unmoved by the loving interactions of her children with their father. Be the best most involved father you can be now, b/c your children need you more now than ever.
And yes, it's a turn on...do it b/c it's right, but it probably doesn't hurt to know that some women stay with their h's solely b/c they are 'Good fathers/providers".
The kids will share their experiences with you, with her so you don't have to worry that you are not going to be thanked or that your efforts will go unrewarded. They will be.
Justs don't shy away from the parts of this that make you the most uncomfortable. That's where the real work is.
Remember when I said "the real journey in life is an inward one." It is true.
But the only way through this, is through it.
ARE YOU READY?
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
