EA then PA with her ex

[Anaru]

It is so hard being away on business travel and just being able to communicate w W and sons via whatsapp and occasional calls - and more specifically it is so hard not to pursue & ask questions.
Luckily now visiting my Dad (81 and on his own in the family home since Mum died last year).
Gives me something else to focus on instead of where my W's head is at.
W visited OM again Sat evening - spent the time with his kids and discussing his work problems (he is Dr and under peer review due to alleged malpractice incident). In listening it sounds like she sees/getting fed up with it all being about him. I think enough already - I don;t give a rats ass about his problems. He is concerned about what his father thinks of all this - my reply was I wonder what his Dad would think about him having a PA with my wife...
Listening & validating is hard when it's all about him.