Clarity is good. I hope you (and Ahoy) can really make something positive for you and your kids.
If you can agree something with out an adversarial D process that would better When my parents divorced it got really bitter because people were hurt and angry and the end result was 2 kids caught in tge middle and a lot of money to lawyers. The more you can keep it amicable the better.
You seem like a really strong person who doesn't deserve this but I also get the impression your H doesn't deserve you
Just remember there is a difference between dropping a rope and burning it to a cinder
Good luck with everything
Both mid 30s, 2 young kids BD 7sep14 XW moved on long ago, now living with OM1 D paperwork in progress
