No one is blameless in these things its just who has the courage to face their own fears and demons and who runs away. Make changes for you and no one else.
Find the things about you that you are not proud of whether that's a poorly enforced boundary or a bad temper and change it so you have a better future, whoever that's with.
You'll do good - that I'm confident of.
Both mid 30s, 2 young kids BD 7sep14 XW moved on long ago, now living with OM1 D paperwork in progress
