South, it doesn't sound like you're 100% ready, so there's no harm in waiting. You can wait to see if your emotions stay the same. You will know when you are really done. I think it's hard for us to separate our emotions when it comes to our kids. It's not wrong to be influenced by those emotions -- it's natural. You don't always have to act on them right away. Better to rely on your rational mind.


M: 43 H: 39
D: 14
Married 15 Together 16
BD: 6/2014
S: 8/2014
OW revealed 10/2014
Instigated dissolution 12/2014, in progress
So over it!