Yes I will back off and dig down deep with prayer and meditation and LOTS of GAL to continue to "stand". I really do enjoy the "friendship" that we have now, and Im very thankful that he is not a angry acting person, not mean spirtied.
I will continue to soul search and make sure Im not just standing because H announced he was "done" and it was not my decision...cause I do remember my years as WAS where I did not care about H or his needs or wants...
I do not want to force decisions from him, I understand for a better M & R this is something H has to decide is worth it on his own...
Me 43 ring off Oct 2014 (my ring back on Feb 2015) H 51 (ring off 7/2013) M 2007 T 1996 S 14 July 2013- H told me he was unhappy.....said he is staying for Son Feb 18 2014 Found out about OW
