Dev; I get that almost daily. I'm spending a lot of time with my W and we're in the "friends" mode but every so often she gets pissed off and dredged up stuff from the past as if it happened yesterday. Yeah, it's like a broken record. I've got to find a way to diffuse it. I'm thinking reflective conversation, but that may be seen as just a ploy. Sometimes it seems we just can win and the only strategy is to STFU or just change the subject - obviously.
W - I can't believe you made me leave your house when your ex came over (10 years ago) Me - Looks like I need to clean out the eaves troughs today - lots of leaves falling into them.
M: 59 W: 53 M: 9 yrs T: 14 yrs No kids together but D30(hers), S27, S24, D21(all 3 mine) W moved out 11/18/2013 D-Day 12/14/2013 W moved back home 12/1/2014
