Ahoy
I think I'm getting to the liberating point .

I keep thinking how could I possibly even consider having her back in the house after what she has done and also how my kids would be very hostile towards her .

My problem is how do I let W know that I'm done when I am . Do I just text her or arrange to meet her to have a face to face chat . Or do I just keep being patient and hope that this feeling changes and she stops being so distant with the kids .

Am I wrong to allow my feelings emotions to be influenced by the kids


Me 40
W 37
Together 22 years
S18
D12
WaW 12/08/14 after affair exposed , suspected for several months
W returned home for 2 weeks to see if can handle family life
After the 2 weeks she has left .