I thought I might feel differently after a good nights sleep (and surprisingly I slept excellently) but I don't.

I know this will be a difficult year. At the moment it sounds like H and I should be able to settle the practical aspects pretty amicably but who knows if that will last. Like Ahoy mentioned I have a surprising amount of clarity right now.

Right now my biggest concern is that H might downward spiral into an even bigger mess. I don't know anything about current OW other than she is also a cop and named Lisa. However the first mistress had just been dumped by her husband and was in need of "rescuing" so I can't help but wonder what the story is with this one. Because whether I like it or not, he is playing happy family with her and my kids.

You know - after I told him I knew yesterday, he sat and watched the entire game with a big grin on his face.

Bah.

Last edited by raliced; 10/19/14 01:11 PM.

2 Ds: 7 and 4
BD and Sep: 7/14
Divorce Final 2/16