Well said, Ahoy. Do we really want these people back after all they have done to hurt us? Why? I believe in commitment, but not to the point of long abuse and disrespect.

I just pray that someday my ex will feel some empathy and regret for how much he has destroyed me. I was a good, loving and supportive fiancé. He will never find someone who will try as hard as I did all these years.


Engaged Aug 2009
Fiancé had doubts Jan 2010
Happily re-engaged July 2012
Discovery of affair July 2014
Separated July 2014
Fiancé is confused about whom to choose
Chose the OW Oct 2014