Walk away wife after 22 years part 2

[Ahoy]

South -- It sounds like many of us are in the same place (just read rd's thread). The truth is, after awhile, it's hard to see why we should want these people who lie and cheat and cause pain back into our lives. Maybe that's part of DBing as well. Regaining our sense of self and becoming a better person. But once you do become that better person, it's hard to want to be with someone who is totally broken and not improving themselves in any way.

Honestly, it's liberating.

My H is also seeking happiness in a virtual world. I hope he finds it, for my daughter's sake. I'm glad that I can find happiness no matter what my circumstances.

Even now, I think I'm actually a bit happy to be moving on with my life. I don't know where it's going, but I know I'll be better off (without him, most likely).