Jefe, chin up! You are going to be OK. I promise you. This part stinks, but it will pass. Either way, you will be OK.

The main thing now is DO NOT FIXATE on your W. Clean something, fix something, go help someone or volunteer, or go hang out with friends. Get on with life. You have no control of your W's decisions or actions, so focus on the things you can do instead. Like taking care of yourself & kids.

M: 43 H: 39
D: 14
Married 15 Together 16
BD: 6/2014
S: 8/2014
OW revealed 10/2014
Instigated dissolution 12/2014, in progress
So over it!