Hi blndsid, snooping? I have done more damage to myself bc of my snooping than anyone else can imagine. Here is what LoisB wrote to me (I'll use your name for better effect) about snooping that was very helpful:
"Stop IT!!! blndsid, Stop, stop, stop!!!!
Push it away. Push ALL that NEGATIVITY away. It's not helping.
Stay in YOUR Lane...Life is better there, NO drama, NO more rejection. It's bad enough, don't make it worse. Guard your heart.
Imagine yourself at 5 years old, all cute and cuddly and loving and trusting and innocent. Imagine that lil blndsid.
Now, imagine throwing that cute lil guy in with the lions at the zoo. Just pitching him in there like a toy for the lions to play with. That's what you did when you snooped. You fed that cute lil guy to the lions.
Don't do that!"
I like your signature tag, but you already know - "people are crazy", so don't do crazy things like snooping yourself. Good luck.
