MyH also made a comment about I should have benn over his A. The reason that I never got over it and unfortunately having my own A is because he never gave me the safety of feeling the pain and talking about it to move through it. He was till being secretive and making me feel that I had no right to not trust him....I think he should not have been surprised that I wanted to go through his cell phone.

Get this because of all of the pain that I held in and never Sought C, I had an A. He only speculates and I never admitted because C told me not to. He sayd that he can never trust me again??????????? wow! Does anyone know why some men hold woman to higher standards than they hold themselves. They expect us to just get over it but they can't.