I strongly apologize if I gave the perception that I believe Jefe used the 37 Rules as a weapon against his wife. I thought I was very specific when I said I have been a silent observer of this forum for years and watched many people misuse these principles. Jefe has not been on this forum for many years.
I said the 37 rules are not to be used as weapons or excuses and a lot of people on this forum use them as weapons and excuses which is why many are getting divorced despite thier "best" attempts to reconcile.
Jefe is not getting a divorce. He is currently in a state of limbo.
I made it clear that I did not start posting until I saw one specific man on this forum use the 37 Rules to abuse his wife.
Starsky, I admire how you defend Jefe. I admire that you believe I attacked him and you came to his rescue. I also respect the advice you give him. It is obvious you care.
