Quote: He apologized for "making me feel like I can't talk to him" and admitted that he was only trying to avoid his own guilt and discomfort. That in itself is a big deal--as I think he's told he "I'm sorry" only 2 or 3 times since the bomb.
That sounds like a big step for him.
Quote: I wish he'd talk to me about all of this guilt he says he's carrying around--what he thinks when he's feeling guilty--what triggers it. I think that might help me with some of the anger I have when I feel like he just doesn't "get it".
Have you said that to him in this direct of a manner?