I should also add that one reason she gave me is that she could not forgive my past indiscretion, regardless of my reason. But the OM is currently separated from a wife of near 10 years himself and the both have cheated on each other 2x. SO i ask myself why she would think that this OM would be any...better for her than I. SO i understand that it is Only an affair, and someday it will end. Just not sure if I can hang in there, and slowly getting to the point of do I want to.