Thank you 25yearsmlc for all of the advice you have given me. I do wonder if not responding to H's texts will make him think I was being passive aggressive rather than just too painful for me to deal with. I am thinking about what you said about feeling that you wasted a year of your life asking WHY? I am going to make an effort to try to put the focus on myself instead of trying to understand this insanity.
Me: 54 H: 58 Married: 29 years Together 33 years H admitted to A: 5/29/14 H moved out :6/15/14 OW lives 4 hours away and "occasionally" stays weekends with H D23 D18
