It's been over three years for me too and I know sometimes I too hold on to that fantasy ... even though I can't imagine ever wanting to be with my ex.

The best way I have found to get over it is too write or talk about.

For me the fantasy gets shorter and shorter and I get back to the reality of my great life and my amazing kids.

You have so much to be thankful for and so do your kids. Don't let your son forget all that he has


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M 39
H 35
D5,D4
M 4
T 9
ILYBNILWY 5/18/11
Left 7/11/11
Divorced 12/1/13