WAW - no contact, now refuses therapy, file?

[gogofo]

Careful with the sex and intimacy. My W and I were reconciling decently, was asked to move in, and three weeks later I am back out.

We had an night where I tried to create an intimate and emotional bond through sex instead of creating an atmosphere of love and affection to bring about sex once everything was better. I learned this too late and it triggered old feelings in her and now she feels reconciliation may be impossible.

Careful with moving too fast and I hope MC will work for you. That is my goal now, to get With to be all in and go for MC.