claire & everyone.... PLEASE show me what I cannot see.

He is BACK.... this is a good thing. But, even better... is that HE said he needs to make some changes & he is working on it & us.

I am obviously totally oblivious... please be specific as to what I need to do now?

~ I have not forgotten that there is still things to do.
~ I do look at EACH situation/moment & as an opportunity to find a way that values ME!
~ I will not allow him to mistreat me. He is still being interviewed.
~ I am still looking at houses.
~ I still need to go forward on seeking my independence.
~ I still have & have always GAL (friends, dancing, outings)
~ I will still aim to place him lower on my list of things to do. Re-prioritize. DD comes FIRST!
~ OH... and I am re-reading Co-dependent no more

What else am I missing? I am answering honestly... and I don't see whats wrong with my answers... I thought they were good and fair coming from where HE is & has been for almost 2 years. I think its progress... is it not?

Last edited by makingmagic; 10/18/14 07:04 PM.
M:46 H:49 T:20yrs
myD:22
H distant summer/12
H sleeping in b'ment: Nov/12
BD: Dec 2/12
asked me begin to move end of Jan/13
moved Jan 7/13 (left my stuff)
"agreed" to "working on r" Mar 3/13(lipservice!)