UR, I value you input so much. I would love to see some of the communication you had. Sorry your mlcer was so epic. The value in it is how much you learned and that you are so willing to share that with others.
16 is a tough time to see your father unhinge. I'm sorry your son had to see that. I can see the destruction it causes.
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He is a mess. You dont want to be near the fallout.
Yes! I love that! I so don't want to be near it! I am struggling with keeping communication and not getting connected to the crazy. I feel obligated to tell xh about the kids. But he spent so many months blowing them off and me when I was trying to communicate about them, that I am having a hard time. It's like now he wants a daily report or something.
Should I communicate this w xh? Should I explain the events I have experienced as a co-parent, why I communicate the way I do, and express my boundaries with it?
Thanks for dropping in, uR. I appreciate it so much.
