Mighty, I've been doing this today and it's not serving me well. Lost in: Heather:
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"What if he is really happy in his new life?" "Maybe, he was right to leave me." "Maybe, I had it coming? Maybe, I wasn't what he needed?"
I had a dream last night that xh communicated to me that he was confirming his decision in that I made him miserable and he is so happy with hww. She understands him and he is so happy and in love.
In my foggy brain, I actually though it happened. I saw xh last night. The exchange in my dream was at the same location, same clothes, it was so real. I truly though it happened. I know... what does it matter if he is happy with her. I need to let it go.
Heather:
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Personally, I don't see how someone can do so much damage and, then, walk away and be happy. I see my dad, who walked away and did the same thing...he ended up with a Ferrari and all kinds of money and I wouldn't say that he is content with himself in a way that I would want for myself
I think some people don't know or understand what true happiness is. They have a very superficial way of thinking. So sad.
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Old Sins Cast Long Shadows...Leave that for your XH to figure out on his own.
Love this, Heather. ^^^^
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Wow, I needed to hear that myself today.
One thing I learned in teaching: reteach, reteach, reteach! It needs to be practiced, seen, spoken, told... the more it is done, the more it is learned. That is what makes coming here so helpful. We tell others what we know, and what we need to practice!
