Need help. Scared, confused pt 2

[Ahoy]

I have to say I agree with Starsky. Jefe, the WAS blows hot and cold during this time because they are confused and often cake-eating. They are nice out of guilt, or nice to get something from you (in my case, a weedwacker, free babysitting while he visited OW, etc.). I don't want to burst your bubble, and by all means it's GREAT that she is communicating more with you and wanting to do things as a family, because this is good for the kids. But no expectations, and NO courting. Let her lead the way.