Do I walk away from WAW? (1)

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I hope you picked a flavor of ice cream that goes well with the cake she is eating.

You don't need to follow instincts or impulses. You should not make an ultimatum. What you need to do is think this weekend about what 1foot2 believes in regarding M and what 1foot2 is willing to tolerate in his M. Once you have that established, you need to draw a boundary around those values and yourself. Then don't let anyone inside of that boundary who is actively violating your values.

Are you okay with an open R? Because that's what you have. Buying her lunch, being her cozy little support is doing two things: Prolonging her fling with OM because it is delaying the "reality" stage of the A (allowing it to remain in fantasyland), and it is killing her respect for you.