Wife in denied but ongoing affair, what to do???

[blndsid]

When I got home, about 11:30, and got in bed she was awake and asked me how my evening was. Told her it was good. She asked who I was with and I told her names, including the females. Gave her a few details and the conversation ended.

This morning W got up first and did morning routine as usual. Except today she got right on the boys breakfast before I could get up. Our S3 typically comes in our room after he wakes up and crawls in bed with me for a few minutes, so I was tied up at the moment, but figured it was fine if I skipped a day.

She didn't say anything to me except good morning after I said it first. She just hustled to get the boys ready, so I just got myself ready for work. I had a full day planned for a change. As she was leaving she told S5 that W or grandma would be picking him up from school. I hadn't told her I wouldn't be back in time to pick him up as usual, but she was correct that he needed someone else to get him. Then she left, not sure if she even said bye to me.

About three minutes after leaving I get a text from W. It read: "Yes, me or my mom will pick S5 up. Also, you can check your emails or whatever way you are tracking me and you'll see that I told him last night that it is time for us to walk away from each other. Believe me, don't believe me. Whichever."

I replied: "OK about S5. I said I was willing to talk about us once you decided to be truthful about everything going on." and then right away: "I stand by that and hope we can talk like that in the near future. Whenever you are ready."

She replied: "Well that's what's going on. I ended it last night. It wasn't easy and I am sad but it's done. Not ready to talk beyond that at this point."

I replied: "I understand, it will take time. Take your time. I want to believe, and that will take me time too.

After that, nothing else until we got home. I did have some concern that the pick up comment suggested she might stay with the boys at her mom's house. But that was mind reading and didn't happen, though I would have let her do it, for the weekend at least. I could use a day off from DB.