So my FIL and MIL asked my W to come over to their house tonight for dinner where they plan to sit her down and have a heart-to-heart about the situation and try to "convince" her to consider giving her marriage another chance. At the same time, they're going to voice their displeasure with her "boyfriend" and the ugly circumstances surrounding the affair (spouses, long-distance, possible relocation, children involved, etc.).
Much like I can't control what my W does, I cannot control what her parents do either. If they are determined to have this talk with her, and are convinced that it will help the situation, then I will just let things happen and let the chips fall where they may.
I'm simply going to keep doing what I'm doing. Stay as detached as possible, and focus on everything else BUT what my wife is doing, feeling, thinking.
She sent me an e-mail earlier today outlining plans for this weekend. She wants to spend the weekend as a family, going to the movies tomorrow, and going to the zoo on Sunday.
When I came home from work, we exercised together and shared a couple quick laughs during the routine.
M: 15 years BD: 6/25/14 EA/PA: starts 5/14/14 11/30/14 - A ends 5/15/15 - D is finalized. 11/28/15 - Start of new LTR with a wonderful woman (and still going strong)!
