" I'm sure there is some karmic logic that I'm not comprehending in your suggestion that I pray for good things for her but that doesn't resonate for me right now."

I don't do the whole Karma thing because for me, God is in control.

The praying for them oddly is more about helping you. You don't have to do it now or ever have to do it and I don't know if I was in your shoes that I could do it either. Just something to think about.

BTW, this just prompted me to get on my knees and pray for my ex-wife, right now.

Me 47 - W 35
M 9 - T 10
2 Daughters - 7 & 9
Discovery of EA- 8/4/14
S - 8/5/15
D mentioned - 9/11/14
R & Piecing - 3/17/15
Regard one another as more important than yourselves.
- Philippians 2:3