"In fact, if you confront them they usually blame the person they lashed at. It was “your” fault because “you” hindered “me” from accomplishing “my” goal. If you would have (fill in the blank) then I wouldn't have been forced to (fill in the blank)."
The times since the separation I have been met with total retaliation and threats of divorce, FB changes, etc are the times I have asked her to see her part in it. She could be in a great mood, util I do that. Then, bam. We're over and I hate you. The first two weeks she at least admitted it happened but since then she says "You didn't see anything", "I didn't do that", "There were no pictures". I say "If I didn't find it and you didn't get caught, then why did you leave?" Her response: "Because we don't get along." and that is what she has told most of "our" friends. I don't think she has been honest with anyone. And basically what I'm hearing you say is I shouldn't hold my breath waiting for her to own it.
Thoughts to ponder.
Me 47 - W 35 M 9 - T 10 2 Daughters - 7 & 9 Discovery of EA- 8/4/14 S - 8/5/15 D mentioned - 9/11/14 R & Piecing - 3/17/15 Regard one another as more important than yourselves. - Philippians 2:3
