Quote: P.S. I was definitely in hunter/angry woman mode during this event...I personally could never just keep such "findings" to myself...
YEP! that's me too. I guess because I existed for so long behind my H's lies and deception that anytime I see a potential flag I immediately call my H's attention to it....right or wrong I figure it's not good for MY mental health to wallow in the 'wonder' so I drag it out into the open so we can get a good look at it if only to let my H know that my eyes are wide open and I am no longer in the BSing myself business.
I just absolutely refuse to stuff things anymore for my H's benefit, I've paid a tremendous price for his deception and I'm out of emotional cash...I'm NOT going to pay for any more of HIS mistakes...the bill's solely ON HIM now. T2
