"I know I shouldn't care what happens to them - especially since we didn't have kids (but her affair partner does), but I really wish it didn't work out for them. I wish that I was the one getting remarried while she paid some kind of price for what she did. It feels so unjust."
Grey, I feel sad for you. It is unjust. I don't know your spiritual state but the best thing you can do right now in your heart is release her. (trying to listen to my own advice at the moment) Release her and wish/pray for her all the things you want for your life. Happiness, fulfillment, love, prosperity, etc. It may not make the pain go away quick, but it will make your hands clean.
Me 47 - W 35 M 9 - T 10 2 Daughters - 7 & 9 Discovery of EA- 8/4/14 S - 8/5/15 D mentioned - 9/11/14 R & Piecing - 3/17/15 Regard one another as more important than yourselves. - Philippians 2:3
