Hope you continue to feel good, and live in that moment and beyond!
Two questions for you: 1. Interesting what you wrote about you XW stating it to be time for her to put the pain and the hurt behind her. Does that therefore indicate that she has been in that state for about the last two+ years (as I am rather sure she must have had many months before BD of pain and hurt)?
2. Was there ever an (more permanent than just possible one night stands) OM/OP with your XW that you know/knew of, as I can not recall from your full thread?
Me:47 W:45 T:18 M:14 No children BD: Jun 2014 INILWY and want to divorce W filed Divorce: Jul 2014 W moved out: Aug 2014