You may remember that last Feb ('03) when bomb #3 dropped, CJ and I had THE big talk in which he swore total fidelity, honesty etc. After months and months of incredible lies, of course.
Within the week, I had this awful feeling about his e-mail and yes, demanded his password. That's when I found (amidst all the junk porn stuff) what looked like a personal e-mail.
CJ was standing at my shoulder and demanded I shut the computer off...that it was just another junk e-mail.
Well I opened it, of course, and it was a personal and rather suggestive e-mail from an unknown woman.
I e-mailed her back asking who she was (pretending to be CJ for a few rallies) and then "chatted" with her...she was one of his chat line buddies, he'd helped her through a suicidal period months earlier.
She'd started e-mailing him again a couple of weeks earlier.
So WHY did he lie about it? After all those promises!! At such a crucial time!
He said he just freaked in the moment and figured I would snap, that I'd think he was having an A with her, that I wouldn't believe him etc....
Wish those "Bonehead" awards were around a year ago!!
Shiny
P.S. I was definitely in hunter/angry woman mode during this event...I personally could never just keep such "findings" to myself...
