Ahoy, Initially I started DB to save my M. Making myself better, GAL, 180, detaching, everything helped me heal some deep wounds. If it were not for the books and this forum I would have not made it through 13 weeks of hell. I would have blown up and ruined what is going to be an amicable, and for me, financially sound, split. The night before she moved she was in a rage and slamming doors and she 2 hand shoved me in the chest. Had I not been DBing along the way I would have let that effect me and probably retaliated on some way. Because I didnt escalate the situation she calmed down after a few days and we are back to somewhat amicable terms.
If ever any of my friends are going through the D process I will certainly reccomend DB.
M42 W40 T17 M15 S13 S11 BD 7-14 A discovered 7-14 WAW moved out 10-3-14 D final 2-23-15
