As you walked away from the exchange, what's your thoughts?
All in all, there were some accusations (on both sides) and otherwise an exchange of information.
Do you feel like you should have continued the conversation after telling him you had to go?
Do you feel like you accomplished anything explaining yourself (about the phone call etc?)
Do you feel like you need to prove something to xh? If so, why? What's really at the heart of that? Where is that feeling coming from?
To me, that last one is the most important. Why? Because it's the key to the rest. Figure out why you feel you need to prove anything to him or why you feel you owe him anything, and you'll know what you need to deal with directly. At least one thing, right?
This isn't about him. No clue-by-fours. Just something you may want to deal with that will help set you free.
A friendly pointer from somebody who walked that walk. For too long if I may say so about myself.
AJ
"Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter" MLK Put the glass down... "Yesterday I was clever so I wanted to change the world Today I am wise, so I am changing myself."
