H's MLC #5

[woundedfool]

Please don't take this as a "Your at Fault!" type post:

I sleep better with him in bed. I would like to spoon (until I get hot, then back to my side of the bed)

He complains about how cold I have the room, window open, fan on, no heavy blankets just a sheet.

He probably sleeps better in bed without me.

So would it be fair to say.... You "use" him to get hot, even-though you keep the room (in his view) ice cold?

I think the experiment and monitor side is really the right move here. Start making changes tonight! Watch what leads him to stay longer or leave earlier. For example, don't spoon, and have a heavier blanket for yourself. See what happens.

I want a better M a better R NOW. (stopming my feet like a child)

Who doesn't? BTW, nice touch on the foot stomping.