Spent yesterday evening organizing and copying paperwork and reading divorce books from the library. I am a bad DBer, right?
But I feel so independent and FREEEEEEEE....
I'm do wonder if I'm going to crash at some point...
Probably.
Hello Ahoy,
You are here, so how does that make you a bad DBer (and yes, I do understand what you mean)?
Having gone through that phase myself all within five weeks from BD (getting main assets evaluated and dividing them all up on paper, followed by her filing filing the divorce - in what felt like as "warp speed" to me during those five weeks), it is a bit more difficult for me to relate to your feelings of independent and free. Did you not feel like that while in your relationship when all was well, or are you only referring to the current phase?
About crashing at some point: always possible, it happened to me last weekend (four months after BD, three months after divorce papers filed and having applying LRT).
Me:47 W:45 T:18 M:14 No children BD: Jun 2014 INILWY and want to divorce W filed Divorce: Jul 2014 W moved out: Aug 2014
