Yes hand washing and the crazy hazmat suit they want us to wear. They also have just one person watching people gown up and down just to make sure it's done right.
And I actually have a very successful single friend that is always looking for a nice guy to hang out with ... Especially down south
So IRT the boss --- you know how I feel about him and his family but taking the high road (as I have) is the right choice. In moments of anger and hurt (as I know so well since this all started months ago) it is easy to let the fly out of the window and think there are better choices. But once I calm down and think about it the right choice is the high road. I have worked so hard to never mention her name or even talk to any of them despite run ins and mutual friends so it would su*k to throw that all away now over a text.
I think I will just tell H that I would appreciate it if in the future he would just tell me first and that I think his one word response is appropriate and that I appreciate he doesn't engage with any of them. Like I said I understand where H is coming from but I also have to stand up for myself.
Btw I did jokingly mention something about the lack of text/effort. Then made myself a little scarce for the next two days (stayed at a friends one night - I sometimes do this in a stretch of work days to save me on my commute so not something that would jump out to him) and low and behold he's back to what he was doing
