It's more that he didn't tell me and also like I said that he makes me feel like he's more concerned with offending others vs. How it makes me feel. We've dropped it and Zues thanks for your insight. I am very insecure about H's intentions but I'm trying to work on that.
This is the first thing he's done that I know of. So I guess it's bothersome that he didn't tell me. He told me he didn't even think about it. I was at work and he just forgot about it. Which I do believe he forgot.
Thanks guys I appreciate your insight. I have to stay the strong independent person I have been. Just had a lapse. But I also have to stay stern that my boundaries are my boundaries