Let's try this again

[woundedfool]

This Ebola mess is crazy

Just keep reminding yourself of the basics... technique, technique technique. Wash early, wash often!

H and I are headed down south this weekend. We are going to see a concert tonight and staying at the hard rock and will be doing some gambling

Sounds fun, I actually have not been to Hollywood since the year Anna Nichole was found dead, I really need to get down to South Florida. Um.....You have any single female co-workers with a loose sense of morality?

He said he didn't think it was a big deal bc it was work related and he only said okay. I felt he should have ignored ex boss. Am I out of line?

Boy, that is tough. I can honestly say I would have probably responded the same as H did. I think it is fair to have the calm conversation: "I do understand, and your right... that message was not a big deal, and I think you response was TOTALLY correct. Furthermore, I appreciate and respect you telling me. But, I would appreciate it if you would let me know early on if they ever reach out to you again."

And then with a chuckle and a laugh maybe say: "I am sure there will come a day, when I will be able to trust HIM again... but I have a worry in my head about his motives"

I was very upset not so much by the text but that H is more concerned with making ex boss mad and hurting his new job. I get where he's coming from but we had an agreement. Any thoughts?

I do appreciate your frustration with the boss, but your H is right (to a degree). Nothing is served in his career by just being a jerk (like telling him off again, or ignoring). As a new employee he already has the deck stacked against him. The last thing he needs is ex-boss calling new-boss and saying: I can't believe you hired that idiot... don't you know he left his wife and kids and tried f**king my daughter? Oh and he stole from me!

Aside from repairing the family... career is weighing heavy on him. And as you mentioned before: finances are a big issue for you two, so I am sure he is quite conscious about the importance of consistently getting a paycheck.

I hope everyone has a wonderful weekend. Thanks for checking on me Wounded- I hope you are doing well

Thanks! you too, enjoy the Crue!