I agree with Starsky on this on. Being positive and a great dad, and showing PMA could attract her back. Sending flowers and trying to be romantic, on the other hand, is pursuing. It will look needy.
This whole process s*cks. You need to detach and GAL.
Me: 40, W: 40 M: 15, T: 18 D - 10, S - 7 D announcement 6/7/2014 A discovered 7/20/2014 (but denied by W) Still living together and sharing same bed