Even "romancing" isn't appropriate right now if Jefe's wife is contacting other men.

It's a typical DB mistake that many men make: cards, letters, flowers, PURSUIT.

M57 W 57; D30 D28 S24 S20 GD7 GD2 GD1 GD5m GD1m
BD 5/07; W's affair 5/07-8/07

At the end of every hard-earned day, people gotta find some reason to believe. (Bruce Springsteen)